tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8795634275633910472024-03-14T01:42:19.213-07:00An Accidental PilgrimThe Life and Whines of a Returned Ex-PatWickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.comBlogger71125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-77011177484212225112016-09-18T02:43:00.001-07:002016-09-18T02:43:16.803-07:00Frankenstein's Monster (An introduction to K Drama royalty)<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I have created a monster! And it is glooooooorious!!!! <br />
Cled has been lured to the Dark Side!! Mwuahahahahahahaha!! <br />
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Looking back, it seems as well orchestrated as a military campaign, but in actual fact, like all the best relationships it was purely organic. For starters, Cled has seen me maintain this drama addiction for over five years now....so there had to be SOMETHING in it!<br />
Then a few months ago, Cled was in Limerick for a visit and one morning, while we were having coffee, I got a message from Judd - my drama buddy who is still in Korea. I apologised to Cled for the rudeness of messaging while she was visiting, but begged her understanding, as a 9 hour time difference is a harsh task mistress. In mitigation, I included Cled in the exchanges, explaining that Judd and I were all giddy and excited about this new drama which had just started, 'W'. I quickly explained the premise and gave a bit of background on the production team's previous hits, which made me so confident about this drama. By then, it was bed time in Korea, so I bid 'Goodnight' to Judd, put the phone away, and resumed my non-drama conversation with Cled.<br />
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Then in August, Ms.Amused and I went to Edinburgh to stay with Cled and her family. For our last night, I arranged a Korean 'Girl's Night In' - we did a full on Korean skin care regime, weird masks and all. There were Korean snacks (which we forgot to eat!) and I streamed the first episode of 'W', for Ms. Amused and Cled to watch.<br />
They loved it!<br />
The next day, Ms.Amused and I returned home, and I figured that was that.<br />
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Until, two weeks ago, when I sent a random message to Cled, crowing that I had managed to do a decent workout, despite having a crazy day, and that I would be rewarding myself by watching the first two episodes of a new historical drama. I linked her the trailer, to show her exactly what I was excited about:<br />
<span class="null">See it in all its glory <a href="https://youtu.be/A7vweYwFcyE">here.</a> </span><br />
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<span class="null">A few days later, Cled asked me for the link to the first episode. Next thing I know, she's hooked! Completely caught up on this drama AND 'W' and has moved onto 'Iljimae', to enjoy some more Lee Joon Gi in all his swashbuckling splendour! (and who could blame her!)</span><br />
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<span class="null">This morning, I got a request for recommendations and I thought, "O.K, now it's time to break out the big guns!" I suggested one of the best loved K Dramas of all time, the one I usually use to lure in new fans - 'Coffee Prince'.</span><br />
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Oh! The happy memories I have with this drama!!<br />
It was the fourth drama I watched and it is firmly at the top of my 'All Time Favourites' list.<br />
But that is only a tiny part of its importance for me.<br />
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This drama was a massive hit in Korea. HUGE! I arrived in Korea four years after it had aired and it was still the drama that all Koreans recommended to me when they suggested dramas to watch.<br />
And it therefore earned me tons of brownie points when I was able to say that I had already watched it and loved it.<br />
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I remember one lovely, golden moment, outside my kindergarten: I was talking with four of the Korean kindy teachers (slowly and haltingly in my fractured Korean and their broken English) - but when I mentioned that I was watching 'Coffee Prince' at the moment - ahh! a moment of pure connection.<br />
In fact, all five of us stopped dead in the street for several seconds, just to contemplate the hunk of gorgeousness that is Gong Yoo!<br />
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I also credit this drama with giving me a memorable introduction to a treasured friend - F.D.A.<br />
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I have referred to this person in several posts, but what is probably not remembered is that F.D.A stands for 'Fellow Drama Addict'. Allow me to explain:<br />
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It was the spring of 2012 in Ulsan, and I was taking in the sights of the Ulsan Whale Festival, in Taehwa River Park. Towards the end of the day, I met my Favourite Diva and she invited me to dinner with a friend of hers. We went to a nearby (and amazing!) tofu stew restaurant.<br />
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Just as our food orders arrived, Diva mentioned that F.D.A was thinking of trying K Dramas and could I recommend any. Well, I naturally and immediately replied, "Coffee Prince!".<br />
I gave them a quick summary, being as careful as possible not to give away any spoilers.<br />
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But that wasn't enough to satisfy them. They demanded more detail. So I grudgingly agreed to recap the first episode.<br />
One entreaty led to another and an hour later there I was, sitting on the floor of a Soon Dubu restaurant, reciting the lines from the climactic scene to a captivated audience of two.<br />
I was dehydrated, and I'd hardly had a bite to eat, but it was totally worth it!<br />
Diva's friend went home and watched 'Coffee Prince', and then went on to watch many more dramas, lots of which we watched together, thus earning the moniker, 'Fellow Drama Addict'.<br />
(Meanwhile, I re-watched it with Diva and Ms.Amused!)<br />
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'Coffee Prince' was filmed in an actual coffee shop in Hongdae, my <i>favourite</i> part of Seoul. Over the years, whenever Lush and I went to Seoul, we would usually make an effort to find this K Drama location mecca. But dodgy maps, wrong turns and simple lack of time stymied our efforts.<br />
We gave it up as a bad job and forgot all about it.<br />
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Last August, I had packed up my life in Ulsan, and Kanga and I were spending a badly needed few days in Seoul, decompressing before the move home. On our second last night, I was walking Kanga through the sleepy back streets of Hongdae, when, like a lovely gift from the Drama Gods, (in recognition of years of faithful worship) I practically tripped over it!<br />
I couldn't believe it! I stood there in stupefied shock! (Seriously, there were angelic choirs warbling over the fence!)<br />
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And yes, Dear Readers, I DID go back the next day without the dog. I sat in the window table where Eun Chan had eaten her jam sandwiches, and took a moment to feel grateful.<br />
'Coffee Prince' had seen in my earliest days in Korea, helped me to connect with Koreans and foreigners alike, my long running and steadfast devotion to Gong Yoo had become common knowledge with most of my friends, and even my dog, Kanga, came<i> incredibly</i> close to being called 'My Chan', Eun Chan's nickname in the show.<br />
It felt so utterly appropriate that 'Coffee Prince' should also be there at the end of my Korean adventure.<br />
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Now that Judd is in Korea and F.D.A is in America, I am giddy with excitement at the prospect of having a another K Drama junky in my own timezone again! <br />
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And Cled, just so you know - you will be finishing 'Coffee Prince' just in time to join me in watching Gong Yoo's NEW drama!<br />
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(rubs hands gleefully)<br />
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Thanks for sticking it out to the end folks! Now I'm off to watch me some 'Coffee Prince'! </div>
WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-64401262735437036822016-09-13T14:14:00.000-07:002016-09-13T14:31:59.967-07:00You say "Earthquake", I say "Icebreaker"!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
In my last post I waxed lyrical about being the world's worst correspondent.<br />
This is not the most desirable trait for a girl who has many friends living Far, Far Away. And the longer I go without contacting someone, the guiltier I feel, and the harder it becomes to reach out.<br />
I mean, mawkish apologies are just NOT a sexy way to start a conversation.<br />
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Happily, every now and then, the universe lends a hand!<br />
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Yesterday, in Gyeongju, South Korea, there were two earthquakes.<br />
No, no! Stay with me! I'm not a total monster! For starters, no one was seriously injured.<br />
The first quake was a 5.1 and the second, less than an hour later, was a 5.8.<br />
I can hardly stress enough how unusual this is. Korea is not in a traditional earthquake zone and in the five years that I lived there, there was nary a tremor.<br />
Well, not strictly true. Three years ago there were two small quakes, but I missed those ones as well, as I was in Ireland at the time.<br />
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(Gasp!) Wait! Is that it?! - Is Korea having withdrawal symptoms whenever I leave the country?!<br />
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But I digress.<br />
Gyeongju, the epicenter, is only an hour north of Ulsan, my old hometown, and two hours north of Busan, another city chock full of friends and acquaintances.<br />
So when we got the news, Ms.Amused and I grabbed this golden opportunity with both hands and lit up Facebook Messenger and KakaoTalk with concerned enquiries.<br />
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Depending on our target audience, the messages ranged in sensitivity from:<br />
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"Honey are you ok? You're apartment is quite high up, I hope it wasn't too scary!"<br />
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to<br />
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"Hey bro, you still alive?"<br />
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Admittedly, we're not going to be nominated for a Booker Prize anytime soon, but we had been granted a conversational opening and we ran with it.<br />
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Contact initiated! All systems are go!<br />
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So the moral of today's story is: "Keep watching the news, kids! You never know when you'll be handed the perfect excuse to reach out and call someone!"</div>
WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-67595937110474411682016-09-11T14:43:00.001-07:002016-09-11T14:45:26.481-07:00Memento Vitae<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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A few days ago, Ms. Amused and I were talking about one of the hardest parts of being an ex-pat, returned or otherwise - missing our friends who are scattered all over the globe. I also took the opportunity to admit to being the world's worst correspondent. Honestly, if it wasn't for Facebook, most of my friends would
be forgiven for thinking me deceased! Ms. Amused also copped to being a less than exemplary pen pal. (I do so love not being alone in the error of my ways!) However, we also acknowledged
that part of the reason why we are so bad at contacting our distant friends is that
we miss them so damn much that it hurts.<br />
When I am not messaging you,
it's pretty much because this Cowardly Lion is desperately trying to
deny how much I miss you. And God forbid that I should find out that you
are going through a hard time and I can't be there to hug you and bake
you brownies!! <br />
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While all these thoughts were percolating through my brain, I re-read an old post by <a href="https://starryeyedtravels.wordpress.com/2011/11/09/hearts-handbags-art/">Starry Eyed Travels</a> about her favourite travel souvenirs.<br />
She has some lovely
ones, which now decorate her home with memories of past adventures. After reading her post, I
looked around my room with fresh eyes and realized that most of my
mementos are not really of places themselves, but rather treasured keepsakes of the
friends I made in those places. I think this is a natural result of the
fact that I was in Korea long term, rather than passing through. What I
collected were the trappings of daily life, the more interesting ones were gifts from friends and
students.<br />
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I have some pieces of jewelry which originally belonged to my favourite Diva and to Lush.<br />
I
find myself wearing them on the days when I am particularly missing
them. <br />
I have a pair of earrings that I bought at the Busan Foreigner Market from the talented Joshua Weaver.<br />
I need to constantly remind myself of this fact, because whenever I catch
sight of them, I think, "Aw! Those are the earrings that F.D.A bought
me!"<br />
Except that she didn't - but they are soooooo incredibly her style that I constantly and automatically give her the credit.<br />
Hanging beside those earrings are a pair that African Queen actually <i>did</i>
buy me, as a birthday present, for a birthday that we celebrated
upstairs in the Golden Eagle Pub in Ulsan, followed, natch, by
the obligatory and awesome noraebang session. Good times.<br />
(And just this morning I came across the birthday card too!)<br />
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The silver ring in the photo is a thumb ring which I wear every single day, without fail. It is one of a pair of rings, the other is worn by the darling Ji Won, my Korean niece. Every night when I take it off, it goes into this beautiful silver jewelry case, which was painted by Ji Won's mum, my Korean Unni (big sister). <br />
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Every few months in Korea, my Dinner Club crew would have a clothes swap night. (a necessary event when you are foreigners in a country with clothes shops for tiny people.) The sweaters I have from those nights are like wearable hugs from my Dinner Club girls.<br />
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There is a photo collage which Doc Doolittle made for me, to wish me
luck before O'GradyLady's first market. And there is an incredibly
adorable O'GradyLady poster which Cheong Soon also made for my markets.<br />
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On one of my bookshelves there sits a wooden framed, Japanese picture and a
beautiful blue ceramic dish (where I stow my car keys), which Renee
brought me back as a thank you for pet sitting her hamster. To the left
of this hangs a ticket for a music festival that I went to with Judd. The adorable squirrels are hand made felt creations from Cheong Soon, and the origami crab was given to me by the proprietor of a crab restaurant in Osaka, where Lush and I had an EPIC crab feast while on holiday there. The yellow Domo Kun pencil case was a birthday present from Tonny, given while I was going through a short, yet intense, obsession with the Japanese cartoon character.<br />
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On the shelf above, the snake and the jolly pig are souvenirs of day trips with Lush and Ms.Amused, while the photo of Natalya and I is part of a photo album that Natalya made for me as my farewell gift.<br />
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I have come be deeply grateful to have such
things strewn around my walls and shelves, but I also got to thinking about the marks that my friends have left, on me. <br />
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Every morning when I brush my teeth, I wait 15 minutes before eating my
breakfast, because twenty odd years ago, my beloved Cled told me that
was good for my enamel. I have had this habit for so long now that it has sunk into my bones.<br />
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When I indulge myself in a full on Korean skin care regime I remember learning this whole process at a slumber party with all the Dinner Club girls at Amanda's apartment - so now Amanda is with me whenever I apply three different kinds of moisturiser. (or drink craft beer - another of her many talents!)<br />
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When I make a cup of instant coffee, I splash cold water over the granules before adding the boiling water, to avoid burning the grounds and making the coffee taste bitter. This was a tip that Goulash taught me, so now, <i>every time</i> I make a cup of instant coffee, I remember Goulash.<br />
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Whenever I drink Joheun Day Soju, (frankly, the best soju there is!) I remember eating samgyupsal at the best joint in Ulsan with Ellen and Alex.<br />
[speaking of.... I'm down to my last bottle. Help! somebody send me some!!] <br />
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Last month I re-read the book 'Good Omens' and it brought Jessykat so strongly to mind, it was as if she was sitting and reading in the very next room.<br />
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Yesterday, while driving my car I heard 'Kiss from a Rose' on the radio, and I flashed back to dancing around a dining room with my friend Nuala.<br />
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What I am trying, so desperately, to convey, is the heartfelt message that I am genuinely sorry for being such a crap correspondent, but please know that you are always in my thoughts. </div>
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I bring you with me through all my days. You have shaped the very person that I am.</div>
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I have that doohickey on my Facebook account that shows me my memories from days of yore and it has been working overtime recently to remind me that for the past several years, August has been a pretty eventful month for me - all quirky holidays, new jobs and fantastic festivals.<br />
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Picture it! Ulsan, August, 2014. The pavement is simmering gently in the blistering heat and the cicadas are so loud that I have to constantly remind myself that they are not, in fact, machines.<br />
It's ten o'clock in the morning and every surface in my apartment is covered in baked goods in various stages of preparation, cooling and packaging. I had even McGyvered the laundry racks into a pretty ingenious cooling station. I was quite proud of that stroke of inspiration!<br />
It's the scene of an incredibly tiny cottage industry at peak production.<br />
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And there was I, standing in the middle of the floor, positively frozen with terror.<br />
This is not a catchy euphemism.<br />
I was panicking so hard that I physically could not move. My feet were frozen to the floor. In two hours time, I was due to travel across town to set up my stall at the inaugural 'Acoustic Lady Land' music festival.<br />
The night before, on my nightly dog walk with Doc Doolittle, I had been quite optimistic. Pleased with the amount of stock I was able to prepare. Nervous but excited about the adventure ahead.<br />
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But crossing the floor of my apartment at 10am, I was hit by such a wave of doubt and insecurity:<br />
"I don't have enough stock. I'm going to run out ridiculously early and be a complete laughing stock!"<br />
"I don't speak enough Korean! I won't be able to do the transactions with Korean customers! What if a scary Ahjumma starts asking me questions about the ingredients!!"<br />
"It will be such a failure, that Dan will be disgusted that he even offered me a stall!"<br />
"I wish to God that I had a car. I could pretend that I crashed it, and skip the whole festival."<br />
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"How," I asked myself, "did I get myself into this mess?"<br />
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Rewind to my return to Korean in the summer of 2013 - as far back as the previous February, I had been mulling over the idea of starting my own bakery business. When I came back to Korea, I specifically took on a part-time job, so that I could really give my idea a proper chance.<br />
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I had a fistful of recipes, a killer name, thanks to the lovely Amanda Bell and thanks to Jen Lee, the world's most adorable logo! (See for yourself!)<br />
And so in October 2013, I was ready to launch the grand experiment.<br />
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Then, with the most serendipitous timing, the redoubtable Harry Bush launched The Ulsan Foreigner Market in November, and suddenly O'GradyLady Bakery had a regular monthly market stall where I could meet my customers in person!<br />
Apart from the deep and thrilling satisfaction of watching them enjoy the goods, it was an invaluable resource for testing new products, as I provided samples of everything I sold.<br />
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Things were going swimmingly. I was having a ball at the Ulsan Foreigner Market and both my product line and my customer base were growing steadily.<br />
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So, I had taken a risk, a very little one, with low stakes and so far, so good.<br />
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Then, in July, a chance encounter while volunteering at the Ulsan Whale Festival brought me an opportunity to go waaaay outside of my comfort zone. It was while I was serving beer at the Ulsan International Volunteer Center tent that I ran into Dan. Dan is one of Ulsan's most senior ex-pats, practically a Village Elder for us foreigners, and I had met him when Ms.Amused and I had volunteered with T-Hope, a charity he had set up. We caught up with each other, and when he heard about my business and my regular spot at the Ulsan market, he offered me a stall at the Korean music festival. I was ecstatic! Positively giddy with excitement. And barring a little sleep induced grouchiness as I baked up a storm, excited was pretty much how I stayed until Saturday morning.<br />
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Finally, after several minutes of frozen freaking out, I managed to talk myself down and begin to function again. Was I back to excited? Hell no!<br />
I was still utterly convinced that the entire day would be an unmitigated disaster and that there was no possible way that I would be going back for round two on Sunday.<br />
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But. And this was the clincher - I believed that keeping my promise and showing up was more important than avoiding the immanent and inevitable embarrassment. I decided that I would rather be known as the girl who failed, than the girl who flaked out.<br />
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Goodness, but I was a regular beacon of positivity!<br />
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So, this event that I was approaching like it was my own execution - how did it turn out?<br />
One of the most amazing and satisfying weekends of my life!<br />
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For starters, I got to see my name up in lights! (kinda)<br />
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Doesn't it look pretty! I nearly burst with pride to see that.<br />
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Now, remember my panicked rambling that morning -<br />
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1) I won't be able to serve Korean customers - completely forgetting that I had ALREADY been doing that since October!<br />
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2) I'll run out of stock - completely discounting my genius plan to bring one of my ovens with me (yes, I did say 'one'. I had three.) and bake cookies fresh throughout the day. This had three purposes:<br />
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About three weeks before the festival, Doc suggested that I should sell Brownies. I dismissed the idea, saying that I already had plenty of other goods and I wasn't going to start experimenting with a new recipe this late in the day. Doc kept suggesting, relentlessly! And I kept refusing, snappishly!</div>
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The result? I sold some to an American customer, who wandered over to a music stage 30 yards away before taking a bite. I still treasure the memory of his shocked shout of "Oh my God this is good!!"</div>
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What a change four hours can make! At 10am I was nailed to the floor, flailing in panic. By 2pm I was set up and selling, in English AND Korean, and getting fantastic feedback. That evening, I finally had some breathing space and I picked up a festival brochure. I had been so busy the last two months, planning for O'GradyLady Bakery that I had not checked out the music line up.<br />
Reading through the programme I got the best surprise! On Sunday evening, one of my favourite Korean bands, Urban Zakapa, was going to play.<br />
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Listening to them live while sitting under the summer stars, what a perfect ending to an extraordinary weekend, what a memory to treasure forever.<br />
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And the whole experience was a powerful lesson in not allowing yourself to be held back by fear, or, to paraphrase a famous book title:<br />
"Feel the bowel clenching terror and do it anyway!"<br />
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A lesson I am trying to keep in mind, now that I am back in Ireland, facing new challenges and searching for new adventures.<br />
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WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-79295586875988949152016-05-05T11:48:00.000-07:002016-05-05T11:48:22.152-07:00"You Might As Well Face It, You're Addicted To .......Language Learning?!"<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Last Friday I was ambushed by a stomach bug and spent most of the weekend in bed. I was feeling too lethargic to do any reading or writing, so I was browsing around online, looking for some mental candy floss. On a whim, I chose a currently airing Taiwanese drama, called 'Refresh Man'. It's been a few years since I watched any movies or dramas from Taiwan, but I remembered them as being light, sweet and wonderfully innocent. Just the tonic for a girl who's feeling wretched.<br />
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Oh boy, did I land on a good 'un! I marathoned the first eight episodes but sadly, now I'm all caught up and will have to wait for each weekly installment like everyone else. Le sigh. In the meantime, I have the ending credits theme song firmly lodged in my brain. Which is fine, because it's a gorgeous song........but it's also a Chinese song. And I don't speak Chinese.<br />
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The language I am actually trying to learn is Korean, and having mumbled Chinese running through my brain does not help. Though, I have noticed over the last few days that when I'm not paying attention, my subconscious plays the song and shoehorns random Korean phrases into it.<br />
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In a desperate bid to get the song out of my system, I decided to try and transcribe the lyrics, learn the damn thing, and try to move on. Which led to this conversation last night:<br />
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Me: Jeez! This romanised Chinese........almost every vowel has a flipping squiggle over it!<br />
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Ms.Amused: Are you learning Chinese?!<br />
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Me: (defensively) No! It's just one song!<br />
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Ms.Amused: (laughs) It's just one song! I can quit anytime I like!<br />
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Heh. She has a point. The evidence against me is pretty damning. I rarely go on holiday without swallowing the phrase book first, my weekly Korean class is at 1am (because my teacher is in Korea) and I think it's totally worth it, and just a few days ago, I went into the Google Play Store to looking for a particular app for my mum and ended up downloading three Korean language learning apps for myself instead!<br />
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So yeah, Ms. Amused is probably right. It's only a matter of time before I properly tackle Chinese.<br />
Especially if I keep watching these adorable Taiwanese dramas! ;)<br />
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And here is the song that started this whole train of thought, 'Think of You First', from 'Refresh Man':<br />
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WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-50617032830469314462016-05-01T16:08:00.001-07:002016-05-03T01:02:49.388-07:00Sky Lanterns and Polo Biscuits<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I've been thinking a lot about death rituals recently.<br />
I promise you, this is not remotely as EMO or morbid as it sounds - merely further proof that I have inherited Dad's insatiable curiosity about EVERYTHING.<br />
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We have been enjoying a delightful spell of most un-Irish weather (i.e dry), so Mum, Ms. Amused and I have spent the last several days out in the garden, doing a major spring clean. The hours of manual labour have given me plenty of time for reflection, and as this week is the third anniversary of Dad's death, it's only natural I suppose, that I have been looking back on the anniversaries that I marked in Korea and comparing them to this year's experience.<br />
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I have been repeating ad nauseum for the last five years that the Irish and Korean cultures are ridiculously alike, and one of these endless points of intersection is how both countries deal with death and funerals. Now, while Koreans don't get comfy round the corpse the way we do, (then again, who does?) they match us point for point when it comes to eating, drinking and telling stories, and also in the fact that if you knew the deceased at all, or any of the family members, you go to the funeral - no invitations needed.<br />
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As Dad's first anniversary approached, I was feeling nervous about how I would handle it, so far from my family and everyone who knew him. <br />
Two things helped me through:<br />
One - my amazing, fantastic and simply heaven sent ex-pat family. They didn't know Dad, but they knew and loved me and they way they gathered round and nurtured me just blew me away. <br />
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Two - The Korean tradition of 'Jaesa'. On the anniversary of the person's death, the family set up a table of food for a memorial ceremony. (More about this in a later post) Of course, not being a Korean, I wasn't going to set up a Jaesa table, but it was such a comfort to have a short hand for talking about my Dad's anniversary. With my Korean friends I only needed to say that "Sunday will be my Dad's first Jaesa." and they immediately understood that this weekend would be tough for me and that I wanted to take some time out to do something to remember Dad.<br />
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In Ireland, the whole family would go to a Mass offered in Dad's name, then we would visit the grave and go back to the house for food.<br />
In Korea, I had to get a little creative and I hit on the idea of sending up Sky Lanterns. My darling friend Dr. Doolittle met a guy outside McDonnells and bought a pack of ten. Then I started to fret whether or not I needed an official permit. Happily, that was sorted out in no time. I reached out to an Elder Lemon in the ex-pat community, who put me in touch with the Foreign Liaison Officer with Ulsan police. Who not only gave me the necessary permission, but even offered the roof of the police station as a venue.<br />
Part of me regrets that I didn't accept the invitation, as I know that Dad would have gotten a huge kick out of it, but it was the first anniversary and I was feeling vulnerable, so I wanted to keep it private.<br />
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So instead, Dr. Doolittle and her boyfriend, with FDA and I, drove out to Jinha Beach just after sunset to startle some seagulls.<br />
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It was different and intimate and exactly what I needed. AND, thanks to the magic of time zones, I was sending up the lanterns at the same time that the family were gathering back in Ireland.<br />
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This year, for the first time, I was marking the anniversary at home, with the whole family.... in fact, with the whole village. It was wonderful to fall back into the utterly familiar process. It started with Maura in the Post Office, who remembered that it was Dad's anniversary, then it was the folk group at Mass, who gave me the space to sing Dad's favourite hymn. It was all the aunts and uncles and cousins, who gathered to mark the day with us.<br />
It was going home afterwards to a feed which included Dad's favourite biscuits, Jacob's Chocolate Polos.<br />
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It was just so good to be home for it all.<br />
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Saeguk dramas, (pronounced 'sahguk') are historical / period dramas. These are most commonly set during the Joseon Dynasty, 1392 - 1897, with a few exceptions being set in the earlier Goryeo and Silla Dynasties or later, during Japanese Occupation.<br>
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The Joseon Dynastic family was a royal hot mess of dysfunction, intrigue and treachery that made the Tudors look like the Brady Bunch, all set against a backdrop of trying to increase their own prestige, while simultaneously appeasing their Chinese overlords and fending off Japanese incursions.<br>
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What makes the Joseon Dynasty such a rich and unique source of drama is <b>'The Annals of the Joseon Dynasty'.</b> Now, bureaucracies the world over obsessively record the daily minutiae of government, but what separates the Annals is that they also obsessively recorded every utterance of the king. Crucially, the King was forbidden from editing, or even reading these annals, so they paint some 'warts and all' character portraits for us. Consequently, we know that King Sejong wanted meat for every meal, against doctor's orders, and constantly teased his personal bodyguard and that Crown Prince SuYoung often wore robes that were too big for him!<br>
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For the sake of accuracy, I must point out that the following dramas are more properly know as 'Fusion Saeguks', because they stray somewhat from the path of historical accuracy to be more speculative, as well as sometimes adding elements of fantasy.<br>
If it's pure history you're after, you need to head back to the saeguks of the 80's and 90's.<br>
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But that's another story........in the meantime, buckle up and enjoy the ride!<br>
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<b><u>Arang and the Magistrate / Arang Sato / 아랑사또</u></b><br>
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Where to begin with this wonderful gem? I think that I will start with what struck me first - the stunning, sumptuous and imaginative visuals.<br>
This drama is a pure fantasy, the titular Arang is a virgin ghost who enlists (ahem, blackmails) the aid of the magistrate to solve the mystery of her death and help her to move on to heaven. The depictions of the her journey to the Underworld were so amazing that by the end of the second episode, I was emailing artist friends with strict instructions to check it out.<br>
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This is a fully realised world with a rock solid internal logic. There are no wishy-washy 'it's just magic' cop outs. There are rules and they are not only explained, but followed. It's really quite refreshing!<br>
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The writing is excellent, with a fully developed, complex cast of characters playing for the highest of stakes - more than life and death, it is Arang's very soul which is at risk. This is balanced by some fantastic moments of humour and top-notch chemistry between the leads.<br>
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And the bonus of watching any drama starring <b>Lee Joon Ki</b> - as a 4th Dan Black Belt, he does hella good fight scenes!<br>
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<b><u>Bridal Mask / Gaksital / 각시탈</u></b><br>
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Our next saeguk takes place in 1930's Seoul, at the height of Japanese Occupation.<br>
This show was brave <i>even before it started production</i>! "How so?" I hear you ask. Korean pop culture; the pop music, the dramas and the movies, are big business across the rest of Asia. Incredibly big. HUGE. And their biggest market is Japan. This drama, dealing as it does with all the dark and nasty corners of colonialism will never......EVER..... air in Japan. For this reason, several actors turned down the lead role, until it was offered to <b>Joo Won</b>, who considered the story too important to pass up. <br>
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This is a period of time which is still in living memory, and still quite raw, mostly due to Japan's unwillingness to deal with it's murky past. And much like France after WWII, there is still deep bitterness against the collaborators. Gaksital pulled no punches in depicting the depravity of both the Japanese occupiers and the Korean collaborators. There were scenes which gave me goosebumps and one particular scene which froze me to the bone. <br>
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In a nutshell, Gaksital, the titular hero, works with the Japanese Government by day and as a masked freedom fighter by night.<br>
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It was great to be watching this in Korea as it aired - it became a runaway hit, EVERYBODY was watching this one. I have a lovely memory of one of my seven year old students whispering in my ear to tell me 'Gaksital's' real identity.<br>
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<b><u>Six Flying Dragons / Yook Rongi Nareusha / 육령이 나르샤</u></b><br>
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I give you fair warning - it's going to be difficult for me not to gush like a giddy fangirl for this one. This drama is utter perfection in every single aspect and in every single episode, from one to fifty. Fifty episodes may sound like a daunting commitment, (most saeguks are 24 eps) but I promise you, I ABSOLUTELY GUARANTEE YOU that you will eat up every last bit and beg for more. ( I have the withdrawal symptoms to prove it!)<br>
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Six Flying Dragons is the prequel to Tree With Deep Roots, another drama on this list. Tree With Deep Roots tells the story of King Sejong the Great and the political and ideological ramifications of the creation of the Korean alphabet, hangul.<br>
When if finished, I wondered to myself, "How could this exquisite drama possibly be improved upon?" The answer? <br>
Take the same production team, set the story a generation earlier, at the foundation of the dynasty, given them a larger ensemble cast and twice the time to tell the story.<br>
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It is a trademark of both dramas that the ideological conversations are every bit as gripping and exciting as the breathtaking fight scenes.<br>
And if amazing dialogue and mind blowing martial arts aren't enough to float your boat, (you weirdo!), well then, just sit back and enjoy the pretty!!<br>
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Here are three of the six dragons:<br>
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And trust me, it does not hurt that the top guy, <b>Byun Yo Han</b>, is channeling the young Errol Flynn for the early days of his character!<br>
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Middle Main Man, <b>Yoo Ah In</b>, in an actor of such incredible intensity that I look forward to watching him for many years to come.<br>
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Lastly, <b>Yoon Kyun Sang</b> manages the delicate task of playing a character of humbling innocence and strength.<br>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Ohmygodthisdramaissofreakencuuuuuute!!!!!!</span><br>
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This drama is listed under 'Saeguk' but could just as comfortably be filed under 'Gender Bendy Shenanigans', as the heroine is a girl who dresses as a young man in order to work as a book seller and support her family. Through mischief and misfortune, she ends up attending the epynonymous Sungkyunkwan University. (Not only an actual university, but one of the oldest in Asia, founded in 1398) Cue hijinks galore!<br>
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This drama not only has the fun of gender bendy shenanigans, but the bromance is off the charts!! You'll be squeeing for days! And the romance is just adorable. Feck it. I'm just going to have to watch it again!<br>
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Take this drama as a gift wrapped tonic from me, and stream it the next time you need a pick me up.<br>
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Hand's up who loves 'Romeo and Juliet'?<br>
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Now imagine if our darling Romeo and Juliet were a few years older, intelligent and had a strength of conviction so rock solid that you could build a house on it - sounds pretty good, huh? You're in for a treat then, cos that's this drama.<br>
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I discovered this drama while a friend and I were having Sunday lunch at a restaurant, and this was playing on the telly. My friend and I were busy chatting and eating, not paying it any mind, when we suddenly realised that every other diner in the place was riveted to the screen as the episode's cliffhanger played out. And damn! As soon as we looked, we were hooked!<br>
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This drama is based on the bloody and vicious coup of Prince Su-Yang in his bid to become the seventh king of Joseon in 1453. The stakes are high and the scope is epic. The show has a tightly constructed plot which will keep you guessing until the end. This is a drama you can really sink your teeth into.<br>
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<b><u>The Return of Iljimae / Doraohn Iljimae / 돌아온 일지매</u></b><br>
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This drama is such a sumptuous feast for the senses! Lush cinematography, thoughtful editing, beautiful music which enhances the scenes without ever overwhelming them, and all in support of a thoughtful and complex character arc of our hero, Iljimae. And the swordfights are pure art!<br>
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And would someone please explain to me how the hell <b>Jung Il Woo</b> can emote such much just with his eyes!!!!<br>
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This is a drama which I will be happily rewatching for years to come.<br>
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<b><u>Tree With Deep Roots / Puri Gippeun Namu / 뿌리 깊은 나무</u></b><br>
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Oh, Show, how do I love thee? Let me count the ways?<br>
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Based on the best selling novel of the same name, words fail me in trying to praise the excellence of the script. It's exploration of the dictum, 'Knowledge is Power' is thought provoking to a degree which is deeply satisfying. It showcases the colossal talent of <b>Han Seok Kyu</b> in his tour de force role of King Sejong the Great.<br>
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How epic was this show? The actor <b>Song Joon Ki</b>, currently taking Asia by storm in the hit drama Descendents of the Sun, <i>turned down </i>the chance to play the lead in a drama, so that he could play the young King Sejong for only four episodes and one Oscar worthy scene further down the line. And that decision transformed his career. This show is just that damn good and if I ever win the lottery, I'll be buying a desert island so that I can kidnap my friends and make them watch it!!<br>
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Well my lovelies, I hope that some of these luscious offerings will lure you over to the dark side! heh heh.<br>
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These dramas can be streamed on subscription sites like Dramafever or Viki, and can be streamed for free on Dramafire.com.<br>
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To get the full historical context, as well as references to Korean legends and customs, go to Dramabeans.com and read the recaps after each episode.<br>
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Coming up in Part Two: Crime and Punishment in the Land of the Morning Calm.<br>
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WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-32911178934258352942016-04-10T16:15:00.000-07:002016-04-11T18:33:28.335-07:00Crack K-Drama Recommendations - These'll get you hooked! - Part 0<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Over the last few years, several of my friends, (who well knew of my passion for Korean drama) have asked me to recommend a few shows to them. These conversations usually took place over a bottle of soju (or 3) in a Samgyupsal restaurant, or while walking our dogs in the park. So I would give them a few names and tell them, "Whatever you watch, go to Dramabeans.com and read the recaps, they will explain everything." Far better than watching it with me and having to bear my constant twitching as I restrained myself from explaining every nuance of every scene! The most recent request came this week, so I finally got organised to compile a proper blog post and do justice to the subject.<br />
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It is said that, 'Acknowledging that you have a problem is the first step in overcoming it'. By this logic, I am screwed, for the denial is strong in this one. I honestly believed that I would be able to cover all this material in one post! Idiot.<br />
I don't want to rattle off a quick 'Top 10' list, as both my friends and Korean dramas are varied enough to make a quick list impossible.<br />
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So instead, I am going to break this down by genre. And suddenly this simple post has hatched into a seven part series. I'd say that I was a sucker for punishment, except that I'm going to utterly relish every bit of it!<br />
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So here's what will be coming in the next few days:<br />
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Part 1: Saeguks - Historical Dramas: Swords, Silks and Subterfuge.<br />
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Part 2: Crime and Punishment in the Land of the Morning Calm.<br />
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Part 3: Time Travel: A Wibbly Wobbly......Timey Wimey......Ball of Stuff.<br />
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Part 4: Gender Bendy Shenanigans.<br />
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Part 5: Medical and Mental Mayhem.<br />
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Part 6: Drama, Drama, Drama - A Cornucopia of Tropes.<br />
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Part 7: I Took The Bullet, So You Don't Have To.<br />
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(rubs hands gleefully) This is gonna be fuuuuuun!!!!</div>
WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-7024748681484668212016-04-07T10:07:00.003-07:002016-04-07T10:07:36.045-07:00Normal Service Will Be Resumed Shortly, Thank You For Your Patience<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Dear Readers, </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I hardly know where to begin this post, just as I can hardly believe that it has been three years since my last one. I have been procrastinating over this for quite some time now, as I struggled to find a killer opening hook, but I finally remembered the words of G.K Chesterton, "If something is worth doing, it's worth doing badly."</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">So here I am, willing to be clumsy and awkward.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">When last I posted it was the 13th of March, 2011 and I was full of plans for travelling in Australia and Europe and staying at home for a month, before returning back to Korea for more adventures.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Sadly, just one week after posting, Ms. Amused and I got a phonecall from Ireland. Rather, we got THE phonecall from Ireland: "You need to come home immediately, your father is dying."</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Three days later, having quit our jobs and packed up our apartments (thanks to staggering amounts of help from our friends, for which we are eternally grateful), we were on our way back to Ireland.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">We had almost exactly a month with Dad before he died. It was difficult and painful and blessed and wonderful. But since the day he died I had not wanted to write a single word.......until now.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">So much has happened in the last three years, so much tears and laughter, adventures and catastrophes: I returned to Korea, started a new job, started a bakery business, adopted a dog, dated, travelled, coped with grief, and now I have come back to Ireland.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">So for the foreseeable future, this blog will be a mixture of reminiscences of my Korean adventures, a safe place to vent my reverse culture shock and terrible homesickness, and a record of my journey to build a new life here in Ireland.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Ok, thank you for sticking with me through the awkward bit. The next posts will be back to my usual charm and wit, I promise! ;)</span><br />
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WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-11238553078124985882013-03-13T21:57:00.000-07:002013-03-13T21:57:04.165-07:00Kindy Teachers - The OTHER Rock Stars<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I'm coming to the end of my deskwarming stint here in kindergarten before starting the new year classes next Monday, so for the last two weeks, the students have only caught fleeting glimpses of me as I coast down the hallways or as they pass by my office.<div>
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Today I encountered one class of seven year olds as they were on their way to play in the yard. Chaos erupted in the stairwell as they realised here was Kate Teacher - in the flesh! </div>
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They poured down the stairs in a flood which nearly washed me off my feet, all eager to hug and high five me, bellowing my name and then theirs, as if I would somehow have forgotten who they were in the last fortnight!</div>
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Whenever they see me during the day, there are whispered and surprised exclamations of 'Kate Teacher 있다!" (Kate Teacher is here!) </div>
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The students whom I taught last year will point me out to the new kids with a delightfully worldly air of 'See that foreigner over there? That's MY foreigner! Watch and learn rookie, as I converse with her in her strange, barbaric tongue!'</div>
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Seven year olds can be so condescending!</div>
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So on Monday I will once again have the heady experience of entering a classroom to universal delight and leaving the classroom with at least one child clinging to my leg and entreating '가지마!' (Don't go!).</div>
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For two more weeks I'll get to live it up as a Kindergarten Rock Star, then my contract ends and I will head off for some travelling before returning to Korea and a different school.</div>
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I won't be teaching kindergarten though, so I better milk the celebrity status while it lasts.</div>
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WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-3233250598394271492013-03-10T21:29:00.002-07:002021-10-08T19:07:48.360-07:00A nice cup of tea and a sit down.<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">I have three more weeks in Korea before I begin a nice, meandering trip home via Australia, Amsterdam and the UK, and as the departure date draws closer I find myself remembering my last trip home.</span><br />
<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">There was a single activity which highlighted more clearly than anything else, just how long and how far I had been from home.</span><br />
<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">It was the humble cup of tea.</span><br />
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<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">Irish people take our tea very seriously. We are very fussy about the tea itself and while the ritual of making the tea may lack the aesthetics of, say, a Japenese Tea Ceremony, make no mistake - it IS a ritual.</span><br />
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<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">Irish people drink more tea per capita than any other country in the world. Think about that for a minute. We drink more tea than the Chinese, the Japanese, even more than the English for crying out loud!</span><br />
<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">Though now that I am living in Asia, I think this is explained by the fact that in the U.K and Ireland when we say tea, what we really mean is black tea, whereas here in Asia you can make tea out of anything even vaguely botanical. So while we beat them out drinking black tea, they have the market cornered in consumption of say, Chrysanthemum or Quince teas.</span><br />
<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">The blends we drink in Ireland are mostly Indian and Kenyan teas which are very high in tannins. This makes for a very strong tea to which we add milk and often, sugar. A notion that would have most Asians turning green at the gills.</span><br />
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<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">The ritual comes into the making of the tea itself. Now, most households in the Northern Europe know how to make a decent cup of tea, but my parents elevated it to an art form. A precise dance of intricate and measured steps.</span><br />
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<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">First, boil the kettle and choose a teapot of a size appropriate for your party. My Dad, the Science teacher, drilled us that while making tea the kettle should only be boiled once - as each successive boiling reduces the oxygen content of the water and oxygen is necessary to draw the tannins from the tea leaves. ( I DID say that my parents take tea seriously, right?!)</span><br />
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<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">The <i>very second</i> the kettle boils, pour some of the water into your teapot and swirl it around - thus 'scalding the pot'. This must be done quickly and deftly (it's all in the wrist). You want to heat the pot while not taking so long that the water has gone fully off the boil.</span><br />
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<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">Put one or two scoops of tea leaves into the pot. In our house, tea bags are for sad losers who drink alone.</span><br />
<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">Fill the teapot, place it on the pot stand, cover with the tea cosy and leave to 'brew'.</span><br />
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<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">While the tea is brewing, gather the rest of the required paraphernalia; the cups, milk, sugar and of course something to eat.</span><br />
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<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">In the words of my grandfather, "You can't ate tae without bread!"</span><br />
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<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">To have a cup of tea in one hand and no cut of cake, no bit of brack, not even a fig roll biscuit in the other hand..... well! That's simply unthinkable! Barbarous, even!</span><br />
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<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">By now the tea is well brewed to the color of aged amber. The next step in the ritual is serving it up just how everyone likes it.</span><br />
<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">This is done with knowledge which has accreted though the thousands of tea ceremonies which have gone before.</span><br />
<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">Who likes the first cup out of the pot? Who insists on having the last and therefore strongest cup?</span><br />
<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">Who likes the milk to be poured in the cup first and who likes no milk at all - though I hesitate to even type that last option, as it happens so rarely. </span><br />
<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">We brew our tea so strong that drinking it without milk is hardly feasible.</span><br />
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<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">Once that mysterious alchemy has been performed the cups must be handed around according to a subtle hierarchy. This might explain why the Irish, when we actually bother ourselves, are quite good at diplomacy. Years of figuring out who gets the good china cup and the first serving without starting a family feud makes more overt forms of negotiation a cake walk.</span><br />
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<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">Once the tea has been dispensed, it's back to refill the kettle for round two: The Hot Sup. Good hospitality dictates that when the cup is down to the last quarter, it must be refilled with fresh, hot tea, because in Ireland, no one ever drinks just one cup!</span><br />
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<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">Unfortunately for me, after two years of drinking delicate infusions of hibiscus blossom or chrysanthemum tea and various other blooms - whom I had previously only encountered in the titles of the more artsy kind of martial arts films - my ability to appreciate (i.e. cope with) tannins in all their glory, has been almost entirely eroded.</span><br />
<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">One Lyons teabag, which for any other Irish person will make one cup of tea, will do me for four!</span><br />
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<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">Last Sunday I was at my sisters place and when she offered me a cup of Irish tea I asked her to simply dip the bag in my cup and then use it to make her own cup.</span><br />
<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">She physically recoiled in horror and the look of revulsion on her face was priceless - her nose wrinkles so adorably!</span><br />
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<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">And this is why, for the three weeks I am home in Ireland, I will be making every pot of tea in EVERY house I set foot in - all the better to avoid lengthly explanations and the look of uncomprehending horror at my drinking tea which my Grandmother would delicately dismiss as 'maiden's water'!</span><br />
<span face=""verdana" , sans-serif">Or as my father would say, "It's too weak to climb out of the pot!".</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana";">Or maybe I'll just stick to coffee!</span></div>
WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-83021589603726951002013-03-03T22:45:00.002-08:002013-03-03T22:46:58.899-08:00Fear Factor<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Fear. It's a curious beast. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">An action which may seem mundane and positively ho hum to one person will give the next person a serious case of the heebie jeebies.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Take my friend Martha* for example. Martha is intelligent, vivacious and awesomely confindent. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">When she finishes her time in Korea she will return home to set up TWO new businesses.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">And yet, this powerful, independent go-getter would rather gnaw off her own foot than speak in public.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">For myself, speaking in public is no problem at all. At school, on stage, in church, anywhere at all - I'll start declaming at the drop of a hat.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">(if that hat could have small denominations dropped into it, well, so much the better!)</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">On the other hand, ask me to approach a stranger on the street to ask for directions in a foreign language, and you'll find me in the corner with Martha.....gnawing on my own foot.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">For years I dreamed of moving to France, particularly to the south east, the Langue D'Oc region. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">It is a country where I speak the language (functionally), where I know the food and the history, the legends and the customs. It is a simple two hour flight from home - and yet, I kept back pedalling and postponing, telling myself, "Next year in Carcassone!"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I was afraid that my french wasn't good enough, that I wouldn't, simply couldn't, make it on my own.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">"What?! Stand in front of a classroom and teach english?! And demand payment for these paltry services?! Are you mad??" </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">"Rent an apartment and pay bills in another country!" That is something that grown ups can do.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I am not a grown up! My fraud would be discovered in no time.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">So I dickered about the British Isles for a few years instead, doing nonsense jobs that I wasn't particularly interested in, because I was too scared to risk following my dream and failing.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Time passed, plans fell apart, and this contrary pilgrim who is too scared to move to France, where does she end up?</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Korea!!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">A country where I didn't read the alphabet, much less speak the language. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I didn't know the food or the history, the legends or the customs. And this patch of ground is a two DAY flight from home. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">In fact, so vast was my ignorance of this country that I can tell you precisely what I knew about it before coming here.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Four things.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">That's it. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I knew four things about a country the size of the United Kingdom and with a history spanning thousands of years. (hangs head in shame)</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">"And which four gems were these?" I hear you ask. Which four nuggets of wisdom had I garnerd on my way?</span><br />
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<li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Korea is a country divided by war into North and South.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Korea hosted the 1988 Olympics in Seoul.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Korean high school students place very high in mathematics in international league tables. (Honestly, the flotsam and jetsom that sticks in your head from talk radio!)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">My Dad's Korean student told him that the Koreans were the Irish of Asia - but didn't explain why. (Then I got here and discovered, oh boy! Was she ever on the money!)</span></li>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">How on earth I found the courage to do this, when I spent years bottling out of the easier option, is a mystery I am still trying to unravel.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Though I suspect it has a lot to do with the fact that when I my original plans fell apart and I found myself applying for jobs absolutely everywhere in the world, I was simply too worn down to be scared.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">When I tell people how I ended up in Korea, and that I could never have guessed in a million years how I would fall head over heels in love with the place, I often finish by remarking how much I relish that life can surprise me like this.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Perhaps though, what I really mean is that I love that I can surprise myself.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">For here I am, on the other side of the world.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Without fear.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Flourishing.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">* names have been changed to protect the innocent.</span></div>
WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-51067311292195954292013-02-27T20:49:00.001-08:002013-02-27T20:49:48.794-08:00Reasons to learn Korean # 46 - Preventing 'The Look'<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Last week I was fighting a valiant rearguard action against yet <em>another</em> cold, so I popped into a nearby pharmacy for lunch to stock up on Theraflu, the Korean equivalent of Lemsip.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">When I asked for it however, the pharmacist apologised but said that they were out of stock and wouldn't have it for a day or so.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">It was at this point that 'The Look' crossed his face.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">'The Look' says - oh how clearly it declares: "I can't say this in your language! How the hell do I mime this!"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">It is a facial expression with which I am initimately familiar, because during my average week there may be several occasions where I am either recieving 'The Look', or making it myself.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">And bless Mr.Pharmacist for even trying to figure out a mime. Quite a few people, myself included, would have contented themselves with the simple, yet efficient, "Theraflu. No." and made this gesture:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">So when I replied in Korean, "Oh, that's alright, give me Tylenol instead please.", the look of relief which dawned across his face was a joy to behold. He complimented me on my Korean, whereupon I did what any self-respecting Irish (and indeed, Korean) person does when they get a compliment - the old 'Demurral Two Step'.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">"Oh no, it isn't good. I'm only slowly learning it." etc, etc back pedal, back pedal.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The funny thing is, I'm not being falsely modest here. I really DON'T speak that much Korean and I AM learning it quite slowly.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">That being said, there are whole phrases which I use all the time and therefore they trip effortlessly off the tongue.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Ironically, one of those phrases is "Oh no, I only speak a little Korean. I'm just learning it slowly."</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">It's a fair mouthful and I have to own up to a childish glee whenever I trot it out and see them processing the fact that I've just "I don't speak Korean.", in flawless Korean! heh heh.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">So I skipped out of the pharmacy that day clutching my Tylenol and a warm glow of satisfaction that for once I had been able to disarm 'The Look'.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I could get used to this feeling.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Not the copious and arduous amounts of study it requires though. Sigh.</span></div>
WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-35678066768661676032013-02-24T21:56:00.000-08:002016-04-01T13:19:00.989-07:00You know when..... List Mania #1<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
To lighten to mood after my previous maudlin offering, allow me to attempt something more entertaining.<br />
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Here is a list of occurrances which cause an ex pat to pause and exclaim, "Wow! I have been here waaaay too long!"<br />
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<li>You don't even realise you've bowed until you are on the way back UP!</li>
<li>You and your friend belatedly realise that ye've spent the last five minutes eating your french fries with chopsticks.</li>
<li>You drink Brown Rice Tea. Deliberately.</li>
<li>I see a picture like this : </li>
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and think "Yum!!" rather thank "Eeeewwww!"<br />
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<ul>
<li>We're watching a K drama where the hero dashes into the apartment to rescue his fair heroine and we all sigh happily and exclaim, "Look! He's really worried about her! He didn't stop to take off his shoes!!"</li>
<li>All the coffee shops within a two block radius of my school (and trust me, that's a lot more than you'd think!) they all know that I take my Cafe Mocha with no whipping cream.</li>
<li>I find myself in a taxi cab which DOESN'T have Wi-Fi and this is such a rare occurrance that I'm more than a little discombobulated. "What? You mean I CAN'T watch YouTube on my mobile phone right now? I don't understand!"</li>
<li>I can bellow 'Chug i oh!" across a restuarant to get the waiters attention with only the smallest twinge of embarrassment.</li>
<li>All my exclamations of surprise, shock, frustration etc are now in deliciously onomotopoeic Korean.</li>
<li>You see a news announcement about an actor coming out of his two year military service and realise that you were around to see him go IN! (Hyun Bin Ah! I'm gazing at you!!)</li>
</ul>
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<ul>
<li>You know and recognise the specific sound of the wind soughing through a bamboo thicket (and I wonder if I'll ever be here long enough to not immediately think of 'Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon')</li>
<li>After two years of drinking light and delicate green tea, rice tea, chrysanthemum tea and the like, the robust and boisterous Irish tea is to be approached with extreme caution.</li>
<li>Triple parking barely even registers with you.</li>
<li>You handle the commute on Korean buses with all the balance and grace of a seasoned snowboarder.</li>
<li>You find yourself going to Indian and Vietnamese restuarants in the forlorn hope of encountering a pea.</li>
<li>You find yourself going to Indian and Moroccan restaurants for a taste of 'Home'.</li>
</ul>
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WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-19955267821402381152013-02-24T20:17:00.000-08:002013-02-24T21:23:21.197-08:00Feckin February! - The Long Goodbye<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I'm looking down the barrel of the last week of what has been a real bitch of a month.<br />
As an english teacher in Korea, February and August are the months you brace yourself for. These are the two months when contracts end and newly minted friends strike out for distant shores.<br />
<br />
I got off lightly last February as the vast majority of my friends signed up for a second year. On the flip side however, this has left me a little more vulnerable this time around, as the same friends have had an extra year to burrow further into my heart and so the seperation will cut that much deeper.<br />
<br />
Here's where being an ex pat gives farewells an extra bit of a kick. In a nutshell, for the most part our relationships here in Korea are a bit like ships passing in the night.<br />
<br />
It just happens to be a reeeeeaally long night!<br />
<br />
We both come from different places and will part to move on to new and still more different places.<br />
Saying goodbye to my friends back home is difficult, yes,....but in a way that I can't express at all well, it is difficult only because I miss them.<br />
<br />
What I mean is, my 'Home' friends are tried and tested. We have already survived seperations and reunions. Emotionally speaking, they will stay where I 'put them'.<br />
With my 'Korea' friends I don't always have that security blanket. The intentions are there, God knows! But are our foundations deep enough? Will it survive the distance, the new, unshared experiences and, let's face it, my abysmal track record at correspondence?<br />
<br />
Last weekend I said farewell to two of my friends, next weekend I shall be seeing off one more. Now add to this emotional cocktail the foreshadowing of six more departures in August, including my sister! Eeeep! and you get an idea of how bruised my myocardial muscle is feeling these days.<br />
<br />
This feckin February I have had the highs of :<br />
<ul style="text-align: left;">
<li>staying with a friends family for Lunar New Year</li>
<li>having the best First Date Ever!</li>
<li>really sweet affirmations of my teaching, my baking, my general ranking as a decent human being and friend</li>
</ul>
I have also had the lows of :<br />
<ul>
<li>best First Date ever turning into a idiot at the end of the night</li>
<li>saying goodbye to three friends in one month</li>
<li>having my father on the other side of the planet become incredibly sick (though thankfully is now on the mend)</li>
<li>and I have bid farewell to 75 of my Kindergarten students as they graduated into elementary. I have taught these snot nosed cherubs every day for two years - that's almost a third of their lives people! It hurt like a vicious kick to the shins.</li>
</ul>
So roll on March. February, I've had my fill of you.</div>
WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-49209912360042849532013-02-20T06:00:00.000-08:002013-02-20T06:00:24.787-08:00Worthless Witterings<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
When last I posted, I was gearing up to spending Lunar New Year with my friend and her extended family. I had been warned that only two members of the clan spoke english and so had been preparing accordingly.<br />
I started meeting a language exchange partner, initially once a week and then amping it up to twice a week in January.<br />
I even learned a Trot song in case we had a session!<br />
(More on the weirdness of Trot music in a later post.)<br /><br />
I practised whole chunks of imaginary conversations, trying to squirrel away snippets of dialogue for every possible scenario.<br />
It was like being back in school and cramming for my final French Orals! (whole body shudder)<br />
Despite all the prep and study, the k dramas and k pop, I was still feeling deeply inadequate for the task ahead.<br /><br />
This was largely because at some level I am still comparing my language aquisition in Korea to what it would have been had I moved anywhere in Western Europe.<br />
This is a ridiculously unfair comparison, like asking someone who has spent ten years playing drums why they can't master the piano in eighteen months.<br />
Yet it's a comparison I still have to consciously shake off.<br />
<br />
Happily, while I was comparing myself to a mythical might~have~been, my host family were busy comparing ME to the only other foreigner to have spent time with them.<br />
Sunny's brother had done his military service with the 'US Forces in Korea' and had brought one of his American friends home for the holiday a few years ago. <br />
On Saturday afternoon during a lull in the cookathon, Sunny and I were in the sitting room when she suddenly burst out laughing. She told me she had just overheard her uncle exclaim in the kitchen, "Well this foreigner is much better than the last one. Her Korean is great, she can take a joke and she even uses chopsticks! That other one just sat there, blinking."<br />
<br />
I did feel sorry for the Unknown Soldier, it must have been a very strange two days for him, but I must admit that what I primarily felt was relief.<br />
I was a hit!<br />
All my worrying was for nothing.<br />
<br />
Which begs the question: Will I learn from this experience and worry less before trying new things?<br />
<br />
<br />
Nah.<br />
<br />
<br />
Probably not.<br />
</div>
WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-87796631741725265402013-01-30T00:00:00.000-08:002013-02-24T21:15:20.726-08:00Atta girl!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Today, due to random flucuations in the Space/Time Continuum, I ate my lunch at the same time as the school bus drivers for the first time in well over a year.<br />
<br />
I was sitting by Mr. Park, the Director's husband and I had asked him to write in hangeul the name of my new favourite dish: dried radish leaves refried in dwenjang sauce.<br />
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시레기 조림 (Shiraegi joreom) This stuff is my new crack heroin.<br />
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I had returned to mindlessly stuffing my face with this nectar of the Gods, happily letting the bus driver's thick saturi (dialect) waft over my head, when the words 'waygookin' (foreigner) and 'Ireland-uh' snagged my attention.<br />
It seems they had noticed my appetite and started to ask Mr.Park about me:<br />
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"Where is she from?"<br />
"Ireland. The one beside the UK." (Not to be confused with the 'other' Ireland, which is further north, has a volcano and is known to the rest of us as 'Iceland'.)<br />
"She seems to be eating Korean food well."<br />
To this, Mr. Park beamed and announced in the tones of a proud parent:<br />
"Oh yes! She eats Korean food well every day! She is almost a Korean!"<br />
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I felt like a five year old in a sandbox whose mum is announcing to all the other mums, "Well MY daughter eats ALL her vegetables!"<br />
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And all the while I ate my Shiraegi joreom and tried to look like I didn't understand.<br />
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WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-58808463566534067852012-12-17T21:02:00.000-08:002012-12-17T21:02:15.317-08:00Counting Blessings<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I had a pretty good weekend this week, it was busy - but then again here in Korea, I'm only NOT busy when I'm sick! Still, in all the happy, hectic socialising there were lots of moments where I could only stop and give thanks.<br />
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There were several moments on Friday night, when I was out on a friend's hwaeshik (work dinner) when I was grateful for my friends here in Korea and particularly grateful that FDA will be staying for another year.<br />
(partly because, aside from all her sterling qualities and endearing quirks, she is my very own Fellow Drama Addict. She and Lush are the only ones I can really spazz out over dramas with and I would be a very woebegone junkie indeed without those two girls.)<br />
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FDA stayed at my place that night, which meant that we both had company when we heard about the shooting in Connecticut. We both had someone who didn't mind seeing us cry. In all the horror, I was able to stop and give thanks that my Connecticut cousins, one of whom IS an elementary school teacher, were all far, far away from Sandy Hook.<br />
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That afternoon I had my language exchange. I am really loving these lessons! My tutor is delightful and I am really, deep down grateful for her. She is training to be an elementary school teacher and has already cleared it with me that she is going to be quite strict. Fine by me, I'm on a clock here people! February 9th ain't gettin' any further away!<br />
We were speaking about first impressions and how we were both nervous about meeting each other for the first time (as the meet was set up by the friend of a friend of a friend - yeah, tenuous or what?) and when she saw me for the first time, in my bobble hat and bear mittens, she instantly relaxed and knew we'd get on just fine!!<br />
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Sunday was the real icing on the cake in terms of maintaining an 'attitude of gratitude'. After church, MsAmused and I hotfooted it downtown to go to the farewell lunch of a very dear friend of ours. I was sad to say goodbye to her, but in the corniest of cliches, I am more glad to have known her at all. I also have the prospect of seeing her in May to look forward to. And on a day when I said farewell to one friend, I got to say 'Hello again' to another. Tiberius arrived back in SoKo for another stint and it was quite refreshing to say hello instead of goodbye!<br />
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After lunch, MsAmused and I went to Shinae for coffee and Christmas shopping with some friends and then six of us went to see 'The Hobbit'. This was the highlight of my month! Waaaaay back in 2001, MsAmused and I went to the first Lord of the Rings movie together. We'd seen every other one together, as well as all the Harry Potter movies and I couldn't believe my luck that we would get to watch 'The Hobbit' together in South Korea.<br />
Though if we are to finish the tradition properly, I need to start saving right now so I can fly back to Ireland for next Christmas!<br />
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So what I'm really, truly grateful for is that while my days here are incredilby busy - they are that way because I have so many good friends that I want to run around and spend time with and at this time of year, when I am missing my family and friends back home, that is a very necessary blessing.<br />
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WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-33925207654049544052012-12-13T21:58:00.001-08:002012-12-13T22:00:16.967-08:00Panic Stations!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I have 25 Korean words to learn before 1pm tomorrow afternoon, so naturally, I'm writing a blog post instead!<br />
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A month ago my darling, wonderful, incomparable Co Teacher asked if I would like to stay with her extended family for 설날, (Sol nal ) Lunar New Year in early February.<br />
I was practically jumping up and down with delight at the invitation. Getting invited so share 추석 (Cheuseok) or 설날 with a family is a big, big deal and I was chuffed to bits that Co T would invite me.<br />
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Here's the thing, out of the grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins, only two of them speak english. <br />
So I had to get my 'game face' on and kick my Korean studying into high gear.<br />
I've been coasting for the last year at comfortable beginner level. I can operate just fine in shops, restaurants and taxis - but ask me to formulate a sentence in casual conversation and you'll get to watch me do a first rate impression of a rabbit caught in the headlights!<br />
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For that reason, Lunar New Year is a wonderful focus for me. It's a specific date to aim for, close enough to cause me palpitations, but far enough away that I stand a chance of achieving some real improvement.<br />
Phase One of 'Operation Lunar New Year' started, also a month ago, on Tuesday evenings after work, my Co T and our Dept. Head and I go to a restaurant for dinner and exchange our diaries. The two Koreans have written theirs in english and mine is in korean. We correct each others work and then slip into easy conversation. Each week my colleagues push me to speak more and more in korean.<br />
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And two weeks ago I met up with a friend of a friend of a friend (true story) for a language exchage. <br />
Jeon Soon (her nickname) is a university student and we get on like a house on fire! Luckily for me, she is training to be an elementary school teacher, so I think she'll keep me on the straight and narrow!<br />
We meet at 1pm on Saturday afternoons. We speak english for the first hour so that Jeon Soon can practice, then we switch to korean for the second hour. Like a proper student, I get homework, hence my need to learn 25 words for tomorrow.<br />
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I've also been tip toeing outside of my comfort zone with both friends and new aquaintences, speaking more korean than is necessary. When it comes to meeting new people, I'm seriously considering writing up a flash card that says, "In english, I am funny and intelligent!" cos I sure ain't no sparkling wit in korean right now!!<br />
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WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-76947842725149411572012-12-13T08:00:00.002-08:002012-12-13T08:00:59.754-08:00One Perfect Moment<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
It's Thursday night and I am basking in the glow of contentment following a series of fortunate events.<br />
After work this evening I headed downtown and thanks to that magical place, 'Lotte Department Store', I managed to get my Christmas shopping done in one hour.<br />
In the cab on the way home I got a phone call from Ms. Amused to tell me that she was making curry and my name was in the pot! And what a delicious pot it was!<br />
We ate, laughed and wrote christmas cards together.<br />
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Now I'm at home and I'm wrapping the christmas presents to be mailed in the morning, I have goodies baking in the oven for my visitors who will come tomorrow evening, the christmas tree lights are twinkling in the corner and I'm listening to a Christmas compilation by my favourite Korean indie band.<br />
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Right now, tonight, life is so good it almost hurts.<br />
I am overwhelmed by the blessings I have continuously received since moving to Korea.<br />
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What a wonderful way to head into the Christmas season!<br />
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WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-16435367809974272702012-12-11T22:13:00.003-08:002021-10-08T19:24:53.756-07:00Welcome to Bizarro World....or....I am Kate's Subconscious<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I was stopped in my tracks the other morning, en route to work, by the realisation that I have been watching too many Taiwanese dramas lately.<br />
Now <em>what on earth</em>, you are asking yourselves, could have prompted such a pavement epiphany at 9.50am on a cold December morning?<br />
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That's a very reasonable question. Hark to my tale Dear Readers, as I guide you through the weird and wonderful landscape of my subconscious.<br />
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So there I am, tripping merrily along to work, so bundled up against the cold that I might as well just put on a full burqa and have done with it! I'm listening to my latest batch of K-Pop songs when it finally dawns on my that I have accidentally downloaded the wrong version of EXOK's new single, 'History'. Why? Because they're singing in <em><strong>Chinese</strong></em>!!!<br />
And I had listened to this song three or four times already without noticing!<br />
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This startled the hell out of me, because on a normal day, Chinese and Korean sound as different to me as German and Italian. They sound screamingly different to me and I just could not swallow the fact that this song had slipped by me, not once but several times.<br />
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In the midst of this crisis of competence I started scrabbling around for explanations and justifications.<br />
There had to be reasons. There. Had. To. Be.<br />
And good ones at that. The alternative is that I'm as thick as two short planks and I refuse to buy that pamphlet thankyouverymuch!<br />
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In the end I came up with two causes:<br />
1) Familiarity and 2) The Power of Expectation<br />
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1) Familiarity.<br />
As I said, usually Chinese and Korean seem about as similar to me as Belgian Jazz and Early Renaissance Madrigals, but lately I have been following a Taiwanese drama. So I have been listening to about an hour of Chinese every day. Therefore Chinese had lost the jarring, suprise factor. I had become used to hearing it, and almost as importantly, used to tuning it out and focusing on the subtitles. My brain had become accustomed to registering Chinese and then ignoring it.<br />
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2) The Power of Expectation.<br />
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The song in question is by a Korean boy band. I had listened to it and watched the video on YouTube, the original Korean version (shucks, I didn't even know there WAS a Chinese version!)<br />
So I <em>expected</em> the song to be in Korean. As it 's a new release, sung quite fast and I haven't tracked down a translation yet, I also <em>didn't expect</em> to understand it. So I didn't pay close attention to it. It was catchy white noise with a good beat.<br />
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Aaaahh. Mystery solved. I spent the afternoon content in the knowledge that I am not, just yet, an idiot.<br />
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And then on the walk home from work, that very same day, my subconscious threw me <strong>another</strong> curveball!<br />
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I was coming home for the day, after work and then dinner with friends. I had arranged to meet another friend but had been stood up, so I stomped home in the cold, muttering imprecations that would do Foul 'Ole Ron proud. I was comfortably mid rant when I realised that while the majority of my brain was concocting witty put downs, another part of my brain was quietly and with no fuss translating the K-Pop song which was on my iPod at the time.<br />
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How, how HOW is it possible for my subconscious to be so spaced out and so clued in all on the same day??!?!?!?!<br />
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Mystery is suddenly unsolved.<br />
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And d'you know the real kicker? <br />
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Chinese song and translated song are consecutive tracks on my playlist! Pwuah!</div>
WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-17948380736840291702012-07-28T22:14:00.000-07:002012-07-28T22:14:28.423-07:00Decompression Chamber<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
This five hour layover in the former outpost of the British Empire is turning out to be a wonderful decompression chamber. I am being given time to slowly recalibrate myself from East back to West.<br />
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I've been seeing and hearing people of various nationalities. I've even heard two dialects of French. Incroyable!!<br />
For the last two hours I have been snuggled up in the corner of a heavenly coffee shop eating spinach and mushroom quiche and corn beef on rye while listening to the Beatles, Carole King and Robbie Williams over the p.a.<br />
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D'you know, it's an absolute tragedy that I'm travelling by myself right now?! I have never been so colour coordinated in my entire life!<br />
Sandals: Peach<br />
Skirt: burnt orange<br />
Shirt: cafe latte<br />
Shawl: dark chocolate & seville orange<br />
Bangles: deep coral, peach, copper and mother of pearl.<br />
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All curled up in a chocolate armchair.<br />
Seriously! Someone should be painting me right now!<br />
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Especially considering that by the time my family meet me in Limerick I am going to look like something that has been excavated from a hole in the ground!<br />
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Oh the humanity!!</div>WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-23365301199709510902012-07-28T03:56:00.000-07:002012-07-28T03:56:30.675-07:00The Long Road Home<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
On Saturday I fly back to Ireland for my summer holidays and I'm bracing myself for a whole heap of emotional and sensory mind f*%#ery to occur.<br />
I've lived away from home for years but before moving to Korea, I was always either a long bus ride or a short hop, skip and a Ryanair jump from home. I was able to head back for a long weekend every 5/6 months or so. I was close enough that Christmas with my family could be taken for granted. Similarily, wherever I was living was within easy visiting distance for my family and friends.<br />
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Most of my time abroad was spent living in Scotland, with brief forays into Wales and the south of England. While these countries are of course different from Ireland, by no possible stretch of the imagination could they be called exotic or or even unfamiliar.<br />
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So now I find myself wondering: what is going to catch my attention first when I land in Dublin?<br />
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<li>Seeing white people <i>EVERYWHERE</i>??!!</li>
<li>Being able to understand every conversation going on around me - that one could become exhausting! In Korea I have become used to living in a little bubble of white noise, only understanding the occasional snippet around me if I consciously tune in to it.</li>
<li>Going into a shop and being able to read the labels! (heady stuff, I tell ya!)</li>
<li>Going into a house and leaving my shoes ON! </li>
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Will that last one creep me out a little, or will I just slip back into Irish default mode?<br />
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I'm also curious to see what my family will notice about me. How have I changed in the 18 months I've been away? Will I transition smoothly from Korea to Ireland or will odd bits of Han detritus pop to the surface unexpectedly?<br />
I do suspect that they will notice quite a few Americanisms in my speech, a natural side effect when 90% of the ex-pats you socialise with are Yanks. I'm ashamed to admit it, but in the previous paragraph I actually typed 'store' before I caught myself and changed it to 'shop'. Sigh.<br />
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On the flip side of the coin, will I find myself missing Korea? And if so, what will I miss the most?<br />
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See?! I told you there was a lot goin on in this head!<br />
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And that's not even counting the whole family kettle of fish - how amazing it will be to see them after a year and a half; how jarring it will feel to be confronted with all that I have missed in that same time; how it's going to hurt like a bitch to leave them again in two weeks.<br />
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Aigoo!! I'm typing this up in the transfer lounge of Hong Kong airport, one third of the way home and I'm already too tired to process all of this existential naval gazery.<br />
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So I'm going to find a restaurant, fill ma belly and revel in the luxury of just sitting still and being surrounded by conversations going on in Cantonese, Korean, English, French, Dutch and Hindi. And that's all within 6 feet! Bliss!!<br />
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Ta ta for now! </div>WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-70382839843486983302012-07-26T20:34:00.000-07:002012-07-26T20:34:11.350-07:00Summertime, and the livin' is greasy!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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So here we are folks, my second summer in Korea.<br />
Last summer I was pleasantly surprised by how well I coped with the heat and humidity. Considering how I had wilted in high temperatures in other countries, I had expected that I would become a blubbering wreck of humanity, whimpering my way through July and August.<br />
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Perhaps that is the trick of it. The reality was nowhere near as vile as I had imagined.<br />
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I was also helped by the dazzling array of arsenal which Koreans have amassed to ward off sunstroke and dehydration.<br />
I quickly learned to likewise arm myself. So nowadays, I too would never venture forth without either a sunhat or parasol (depending on my ensemble, of course!), a fan, the occasional ice pack - a really nifty invention that freezes once you crack it - and of course consuming iced beverages on a near continuous basis.<br />
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In this consumption of cooling ices and beverages, we were helped along by the wonderful parents of our elementary students, who would regularly send their children into English School laden down with ice creams for us teachers and their fellow students. May their names be praised forever!<br />
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This summer, we had a lovely, long run up to the horrible heatwaves of high summer. In fact, I had begun to wonder if this summer was not as bad as last summer, or was I simply more acclimatised.<br />
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No such thing folks!<br />
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Last weekend, Mother Nature finally quit lurking around 27 degrees and made a break for 30, melting away my false sense of security in the process.<br />
Those three little degrees have made all the difference in the world. Now, whenever I leave the airconditioned apartment, school or bus, I walk out into the kind of heat and humidity, the likes of which back in Ireland I had only encountered on butterfly farms.<br />
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My number one priority in housework has become maintaining the ice cube drawer and keeping the fridge stocked with at least two jugs of iced drinks at all times.<br />
Hoovering can wait. An uninterrupted supply of ice cold drinks cannot.<br />
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Rather ickily, I have once again had to get used to sweating from places I hardly knew had sweat glands!<br />
My chin! Who the hell knew you could sweat UNDER your chin!!!!<br />
So now, along with the sunglasses, parasol and fan, I also have a hankerchief tucked about my person. That and the wonderful (social) life saving deodorant wipes!!<br />
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Hugging is a sport which has been relegated to cooler months. Exept of course when it comes to crying five year olds. In that situation I just have to grit my teeth, haul the child onto my lap and endure the overflowing stickiness of it all.<br />
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On Saturday I head back to Ireland for my two weeks summer holidays. As if jet lag from 28 hours travel and adjusting to a 9 hr time difference wasn't enough, I will also have to cope with a temperature drop of about 10 degrees. I'm going to fuppin freeze!! <br />
I've already started dosing myself with Vitamin C in an attempt to ward off any possible head colds. Though the cooler climes should help me have two weeks of blissfully unsweaty sleep, so I'm looking forward to that!<br />
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Wish me luck folks!</div>WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-879563427563391047.post-85471796717204204022012-05-10T01:30:00.001-07:002012-05-10T01:30:36.114-07:00The Time / Friend Continuum<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
As I start my second year here, and brace myself for a second round of saying goodbye to friends leaving Korea, I've been thinking a lot about how making and maintaining friendships works differently for us ex-pats.<br />
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Back home, with no language barrier to overcome, I usually ended up befriending and socialising with most of my work colleagues, till my work and social life looked like a particularly cosy Venn diagram.<br />
Here in Korea, with only two colleagues I can chat with easily in english, one of whom is a busy single mother, the two circles hardly overlap at all! <br />
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So evenings and weekends become my serious socialising time, allow me to illustrate:<br />
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<li>Monday - this used to be my Korean class night, though now it's blessedly free, for casual meet ups and laundry. We'll see how long I can hold out for!</li>
<li>Tuesday - Breakfast in a coffee shop with Ms. Amused, as we try to do some writing and wrestle some semblance of order into our lives. After work it's off to dinner with friends, or home for two hours before heading to yoga class at 9.</li>
<li> Wednesday - Dinner Club! This night is a life saver for ten or so of us Waygookin girls. We take turns hosting a pot luck dinner at our apartments and discuss everything from feminism in Korea to favourite cartoon theme songs.</li>
<li>Thursday - again, dinner with friends or sundry hair/nail/other appointments before yoga class at 9.</li>
<li>Friday - phone teaching has me finishing work late, then off to salsa class before meeting Ms.Amused for pizza and wine and a Thank God it's Friday celebration!</li>
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It doesn't seem so much, written out like that, but remember into this schedule I also need to cram: cooking, cleaning, laundry, paying bills, Skyping home, learning a foreign language, supporting a full blown Korean drama addiction........oh,yeah, and writing a blog!<br />
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Then there's the weekends - those two days which are held utterly sacrosanct by every ex-pat. <br />
This is when we can get out and explore Korea, in carefully organised, bite size chunks. These are the days for meeting the friends who live too far away or who work too late to see during the week. <br />
This is the time for trips to Seoul, Busan or any other city you fancy. <br />
Or, if we're staying in Ulsan, Ms.Amused and I get busy cooking up batches of curry, tuna pasta bake, Kimchi jjigae (korean kimchi stew) and other dishes which we can parcel up to feed us for the week.<br />
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Take such a busy timetable and mix it into the ex-pat experience and you will begin to understand the importance of the Time/Friend Continuum.<br />
We are regularly meeting new people, both Koreans and fellow ex-pats, and the longer I am here, the more I find myself running them through a mental checklist before I will commit to spending time with them.<br />
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<li>Are they a good person? Can I hold an intelligent conversation with them?</li>
<li>Where in the city do they live? Close to me or more like turn left at pluto? Will it, in the end, be a complete pain in the arse just trying to physically get to them?</li>
<li>How long will they be in Korea for? Are they leaving in two months or two years? (Just before Christmas I met a girl who was going back to the States the next day. Upon learning that it was just for vacation and that she would be back, I blurted out, "Oh good! I'll remember your name then!" I DID remember her name, we became great friends and now I'll be very sad to bid farewell to her at the end of this month.)</li>
<li>Can I shoehorn them into my existing schedule? 'Hey, wanna come to yoga class with me?!'</li>
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This probably seems very calculating, almost ruthless but it is for three good reasons:<br />
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<strong>ONE</strong>: I already feel like I'm spinning plates....and doing it badly....trying to keep up with the friends I <em>HAVE</em>. So if I am going to start spinning an extra plate, it had better be worth it!<br />
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<strong>TWO</strong>: Living so far from home, and for such a long time, your close friends become your de facto family. Now, you can't choose the family you're born with, but if you don't select your surrogate family carefully and wisely, then you are nine kinds of stupid.<br />
I had a sharp reminder of the importance of ex-pat families last week. One of my friends lost her grandmother, another was quite sick and yet another finished with her boyfriend. Three very different problems, but all of them are times when you want your family around you.<br />
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<strong>THREE</strong>: I am a damn good friend! I will spend time with you. I will come see whatever performance, race or charity event you are taking part in. I will help organise your wedding or bring you chicken soup when you are ill. I will help you study for your english exam or declutter your wardrobe.<br />
Finally, after years of being a professional doormat, I am learning to surround myself only with friends who will also go the distance for me.<br />
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Disclaimer: All of this must make me seem like such a picky little prig, but honestly, take a look at your own friends and you'll discover your own (possibly sub-conscious) check list.<br />
Back home, with no ticking clock and a common language, if I met someone who, I don't know, didn't like Freddie Mercury, or thought that 'The Lord of the Rings' was for kids, I could afford to declare 'You are dead to me!'<br />
But being part of the foreigner community here in Ulsan has actually broadened my friend horizons. <br />
I was always pretty open and tolerant about having friends of every religion and orientation, but now I'm learning to be that open and tolerant about music and movie tastes as well! (much more difficult!)<br />
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Actually, no matter how tolerant I become, I could never be friends with someone who didn't love Freddie.</div>WickedBicciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12248114584541528013noreply@blogger.com0